Entries by Christoph Matti

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Confuser and Influencer

- Hello!? What's that all about? Well, Confuser and Influencer. - I see. Well, you see, new things are not built on old things. - What? - No, we have to break up encrusted thought patterns, I would even go so far as to say we have to smash them first, only then can the new germinate. Then comes the [...]

Do not wait for Godot

Communication training, coaching, a combination of these will sharpen your communication skills and give you the confidence to fall back on when it matters. You then do what you have to do. And you do it #consciously. Don't wait for Godot. No, we're not acting. We're just practising real life. You still think [...]

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Why me?

We live, we eat, we love. We work, we meet friends, we are with our families. We play sports, we get into mischief, we are engaged, and we communicate. With ourselves, with others, animals, plants and with things. Constantly and everywhere. There's a dialogue in my head and someone is talking at me. The doorbell rings, I click on the [...]

Listen and you are irresistible

Hm ..., your inner monologue runs and runs and your ears are at half-mast. The thoughts are rattling. Opinions tumble over each other, information is exchanged and left somewhere along the way. What exactly are you doing when you listen? Where is your attention? Do you just give the other person time to talk or do you actually listen? Think [...]

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No impression, no expression

That's what my drama teacher once told me. But what does that have to do with communication? Well, if we are not touched or in some way impressed by what we see, hear, taste, smell, touch, feel, then it is also difficult to touch others.